Abusive Relationship
Information and advice for caregivers who are making long-term care decisions impacted by a physically or emotionally abusive relationship with their care recipient.
Abusive Relationship Articles
Saying “No” to Family Drama While Caregiving
Relationships are often strained when a serious illness and caregiving enter the picture. But, if your interactions with certain relatives are increasingly stressful and negative, it may be time to shut down family drama once and for all.
49 CommentsDetaching With Love: Setting Boundaries With Difficult Elderly Parents
Whether you're providing hands-on care or managing care decisions, setting boundaries with difficult elderly parents enables family caregivers to provide care while safeguarding their own mental health.
183 CommentsElders Who Abuse Their Family Caregivers
Caregivers struggle to maintain their own physical and mental health while providing care for loved ones who mistreat them. Learning to detach, set boundaries, seek respite care and respect your limits can help you cope with an elder’s abusive behavior.
396 CommentsHandling Controlling Elderly Parents
Are you caring for a senior who tries to control everything and everyone around them? Use these tips to cope with their overbearing behavior while maintaining your own physical and mental health.
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Abusive Relationship Questions
A woman working for my dad's attorney reported false claims to police who charged me for what she is doing to my elderly dad.
4 AnswersGero101 Answered Mar 6, 2025My mother 75 is neglected and abused but obsessed with her caretaker and refuses to leave. What do I do?
17 AnswersIgloocar Replied Mar 6, 2025My 84 yr. old mom lives in isolation, struggles w/trauma related to her childhood has become abusive towards my brother and I. At a loss.
12 AnswersAlvaDeer Replied Feb 27, 2025Are there laws to protect care givers from verbal abuse from residents in care homes who are in their right minds?
3 AnswersJoAnn29 Replied Feb 25, 2025
Abusive Relationship Discussions
The Caregiver & Dysfunctional Families: How are you doing?
34,306 Commentsnotrydoyoda Commented 12 hours agoMy mom has been a miserable, nasty, and hateful person all her life. As a mother she has dominated every aspect of her children's life.
1,402 CommentsLBowden75 Commented Feb 3, 2025I recently risked a $500,000 trust fund going no-contact with my 86-year-old mom.
9 CommentsMargaretMcKen Commented Jan 5, 2025In debt, struggling long term caretaker, feeling desperate to get away from narcissist mother, but have no way out. Angry, tired, and stuck.
15 CommentsGeaton777 Commented Apr 22, 2024
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