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He has a service-related disability rating due to hearing loss but, more importantly, is suffering from Alzheimer's or dementia issues. What benefits might he be eligible to receive as a non-retired veteran? My BIL is married, but his wife also has medical/mobility issues, too.

Dear KPWCSC,
My husband used an attorney who specialized in Veteran disability claims in Eastern North Carolina. I think he retired since then. He was well versed in such claims.
Since the disability office gives you a specific amount of time to file an appeal to the decision, he filed within that time frame. So his award went back to the initial date of filing two years prior. The attorney got his percentage of the 30% extra from the lump sum of back date funds awarded.
It was a two year process to appeal and he had to provide more documentation, had two more VA assessments, had a private community provider give medical documentation, and went before a judge to be questioned.
It was a bit overwhelming, but the attorney helped him over these hurdles. My husband went to a few different attorneys at first, and one of these guys was the one to refer him to the attorney he ended up using.
The biggest thing is to ask how many clients/veterans an attorney has worked with, and what is the success rate. The appeal process is so involved, and the attorney has to put in so much time to do it right, that he should take cases he thinks he can win.
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You need to contact the VA directly if you are asking about VA benefits.
My friend got a partial % disability from the VA although it took many years.
This doesn't mean to NOT call them. Best to have a contact if possible as some of the people answering the phones told me to go to the internet to find answers to my questions ... he didn't know.

The VA used to have someone on site to help veterans with these applications/claims. If you are close enough, call and/or walk in to talk to someone. There are also volunteers who can help - through volunteer associations. Also, try the social workers or dept at County in Senior Services (for a volunteer or someone to help with the process).

As someone said here below:

'A good Veterans Service Officer can answer questions and assist with a new claim.'

Gena / Touch Matters
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Dear KPWCSC,
My husband filed his own claim at first. He was awarded 70% disability. Then he got a VA attorney involved, and was awarded 100% disability.
The attorney sent information promptly, advised him well, and even went with us to the hearing to represent him.
There was no feet dragging to get more compensation on his end.
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KPWCSC Mar 2, 2025
Thanks for sharing.

My comments: "I always suggest do NOT bring an attorney into the picture until you have applied using the free resources like the Veterans Affairs Office." "The longer an attorney drags their feet, the more they get because they collect a percentage of that back pay, up to a maximum available."

I meant "IF an attorney drags their feet" because fortunately there are exceptions to every statement.

You were wise not to involve an attorney until you had done it yourself. If the benefit was backdated from the date of the claim, hopefully you received all of your back pay from the 70% and only had to pay a percentage of the 30%. Question... was the award for the additional 30% based on the original claim date or did it start as a new claim?

When you say "VA Attorney" do you mean an attorney specializing in VA claims or an attorney from a Veteran Affairs Office or another resource? Can you share insights how to search for the most qualified attorney for VA issues? Many claim to be but few probably really are.
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Did you know that Dementia can be related to hearing loss? It won't hurt to reapply for a higher disability rating for dementia, especially as a Viet Nam vet. A good Veterans Service Officer can answer questions and assist with a new claim.

Talking to other veteran families can enlighten you to all sorts of veteran benefits. I have a few friends that once we began sharing, it was amazing at the different helps we each were getting. Once I learned what others were getting then I began asking if we were eligible to get XYZ... boom... the doors began opening! I asked his VA doctor, his social worker, and even his nutritionist if we were eligible for various items. All providers don't know all the benefits but most will check for you. We have good health insurance so we only use the VA health care for annual evaluations with his primary care, optometrist, audiology, etc. We use private providers for almost all his regular health care and hospitalizations.

He is only 20% service connected but here are some items he has received... hearing aids, glasses.. even an extra pair that is specialized for his reading issues, incontinence supplies, wheel chair, U-Step walker for Parkinson's, Ensure, bathroom mobility helps, caregivers, and too many to remember! In fact the last time he saw his primary care doctor, she told us not to buy anything special until we check to see if they provide them! Benefits do not always come in the form of a check... but these benefits have saved us a lot of expenses.

I have often heard the best information many receive is while in a waiting room at the VA. Just remember to ask the right person what may be available for your case as each veteran case is unique.
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If he was in Vietnam, there's a chance he could qualify for increased disability if he was exposed to Agent Orange. If you get a disability lawyer involved who knows the Veteran's system, he could look over your BIL's C-file. And all other documentation and see what can be done. The lawyer gets paid if your BIL is awarded compensation.
The C-file is the military documentation on each veteran. It will list any injuries or illness, etc reported during his time in the service.
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KPWCSC Feb 28, 2025
I always suggest do NOT bring an attorney into the picture until you have applied using the free resources like the Veterans Affairs Office. Once a claim is approved, in most cases the benefit is backdated to the date of their application and the vet receives a lump sum for the back pay.

The longer an attorney drags their feet, the more they get because they collect a percentage of that back pay, up to a maximum available.

This applies also to SS disability claims. With my husband's SS and VA disability, going in person to have a representative complete the form online resulted in approval the first time around for both with nothing deducted. This way, there is less chance of it being sent back for missing information. I know there is no guarantee it will always happen this way, but it does help minimize the stress of the process.
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Call your local VA hospital there are so many things they can do to help. You can work with their social worker to get started. My Dad is a Vietnam veteran and the help he gets is amazing.
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PLEASE contact your local Veterans Assistance Commission or your States Department of Veterans Affairs. You can also contact the VA.
Bring with you any medical records that he may have indicating any and all medical issues.
A great deal of conditions have been added when calculating "Service Connected Disability"
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He served in Vietnam but he isn't retired? Veterans Administration has healthcare and other programs but he would need to qualify for services based on his military retirement status and level of disability.
If he is still actively working, he needs to reach out to his Benefits Coordinator and HR about policies and procedures for someone with a cognitive and physical disability.
Your local service agency on Aging might also have helpful information for him and his wife.
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Contact your county's Veteran Service Officer (VSO), or use Google to find a VSO near you. Vietnam Vets can only get money from their service-related disability after age 65. The VA doesn't count Alzheimers or dementia issues as service-related. You need to contact Vietnam Veterans of America, for starters.

He also has to be 50% or more disabled to qualify. Since he continued working, he gets nothing.

The VA system is so bad Vietnam Vets who were shot and given Purple Hearts can't get any money. It is a national disgrace. His wife is not entitled to anything unless she was in a military branch during time of war.

If he is still in the service, he gets nothing (except VA Medical, which is also terrible) until he retires and is over 65. Good luck!
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KPWCSC Feb 28, 2025
I am sorry, but most of the info you shared simply is not true. The only valid info you shared is the first paragraph by saying contact their VSO. Those with purple hearts can only get benefits by following through. Of course, the reason a purple heart is given plays into the decision too! Maybe there is no "money" but there is always free health care!

The PACT Act has changed a lot of things because of all the contaminants veterans were exposed to... even on some bases on American soil. For some issues, just being in Viet Nam boosts the chances of being approved because of several types of contaminants all around and you don't always have to prove you were exposed.

My husband was approved for 20% hearing loss before he turned 65. Have no idea where you might have received info it must be 50%. My father received benefits for 10% hearing loss.

There ARE many spousal benefits in different situations. The VA Caregiver Support System has been expanded a lot in the last couple of years. I get 28 hours a week caregiver help.

I have a friend who is receiving benefits as a widow.... not all benefits are paid in checks. One benefit is no car tax.

Each veterans case is unique so only by asking the right person, preferably in person at the VA or other Veteran approved agencies, can one know if they do or don't qualify. Info shared here is never completely appropriate for each individual vet.

We missed out of two years of VA benefits because when the audiologist asked us if we thought his hearing was service related we said no because he was in communications not on a flight line! A year or so later it occurred to us... he was in a secure room with teletype machines constantly running! It turns out that certain career fields have higher risks for certain issues so just by using his MOS (Military Occupation Service??) which was a 291 his claim became a higher possibility of being approved.

We missed out on several months of SS because we thought he had to be out of work for six months. We went in person and learned that because he was using sick leave on such an increased level, he had a higher possibility of being approved! So he worked until he was actually approved, while still receiving a full check.... the difference was it was not due to actually working... he was working half days and on sick leave half days!

My mantra has become... STOP losing benefits by believing myths and rumors!

Ask the right person at the agency involved and amazing the doors that can open for you! If you don't ask you have simply rejected your own claim! Sometimes you have to go back and ask a different rep and bring more info... don't always take the first no as a final no!

This site is great for using the info as food for thought and then acting on the info to find out how it applies to your situation... but not using it to decide you aren't qualified for certain benefits whether it is VA, SS, insurance, etc.
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Contact his local VA Clinic or Support Center. They can walk you through his benefits. Might be easier to make an appointment with a local VA for your brother-in-law and go with him.
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JohnAll: Go to VA.gov to garner more information.
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There is Aid and Attendance that can be gotten for Vets that served during wartime. The wife could get it to. But its based on income. When you contact the VA ask about it.
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If he is not registered with VA Health as a patient, get that done ASAP. All that is required is a copy of his DD-214, showing anything but a dishonorable discharge. If he doesn’t have it, he can request it from the National Archives https://www.archives.gov. Work doesn’t have anything to do with qualifying for VA healthcare - depending on means - a copayment may be required. Also be aware that VA has three independent sections - Health, Benefits, and Cemetery. They don’t even have access to each other’s computer systems. Some benefits are included in Healthcare; others must be applied for from Benefits. Read on the VA Site; there is a lot of stuff out there on the internet, much of it untrue and a whole lot of trying to entice him into unneeded fees. All the best to you and your brother.
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Call your county VA representative. Ours is located in our county courthouse. They will help you interface with the VA itself. There may be considerable compensation available for BIL, but it requires evaluation by the VA. The dementia could have been caused by conditions related to service in Vietnam, so it's certainly worth exploring.
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This is a long research you will have to do for yourself with the VA.
Are you the POA?

We are just a bunch of caregivers. If some here have done this I hope they can provide you of the starting point. I can only guess it would be the VA online site. Local numbers might work as well, or they can refer you. Have all service ID information at hand when you call.
Good luck.
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Call the Veterans Admin. to find out because everyone is different. They should direct you, best if you have his DD214, which is required for any veterans benefits. His wife may be the one who can direct you somewhat. Best of luck.
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