I am my elderly dads caregiver with whom I live with for the past 12 years and have one older sibling who lives close by but only bothers with him on holidays if that. We are all of the understanding the house is being left to me and my older sibling say's that's fine ,Yet When My Dad got sick and my sibling brought him to the Hospital she told the Nurses not to give me any information she was his caretaker and they just believed her and wouldn't let me in to see my Dad who I have been taken care of for years and then turns around and says it's her house and she needs to be put on his bank account when I have been already on it for years and questioning where I'm getting money to pay bills,ect. We are talking about a sibling both my Dad and I have seen 30 times in ten years. How do I protect myself from this crazy person who has no grip on reality yet is very dangerous with her behavior and refuses to abide by both myself and Dads wishes and refuses to take no for an answer. She is the type of person who steels your wallet and then helps You look for it. My dads 93 and I'm afraid she will insinuate when he passes (God forbid) that I had something to do with it she is the kinda person if the doctor says the passing was natural causes she is the type of person who would say ok and then go to another doctor so we are sure he died from natural causes right. That is how twisted this sibling of mine is so what do I do to protect myself from this monster?